A story about World Refugee Day_”They have Dreams and they want their Home!”


Trying to find a house was a quite difficult process due to racism and high rents

According to a ministerial decision, people who have been recognized as refugees in our country and lived in accommodation structures – apartments, hostels, open structures – had to leave their homes by the end of May. Those who are housed in apartments rented by SolidarityNow as part of the *ESTIA program were also required to do so. These people had to find housing in a market that, prefers to turn apartments into short-lived homes (airbnb), do not rent to foreigners (refugees and migrants) and, at the same time, requires advance payment of the amount of the guarantee.

Until now, in SolidarityNow 20 people have left their apartments in Athens and Thessaloniki. On the occasion of the World Refugee Day on June 20th, we decided to talk to a family that has managed to find a job and its own apartment, in difficult times for human rights and public health.

Μ. is 26 years old and comes from Cameroon. She met her husband, who comes from Ivory Coast, in Turkey, where they got married. In 2017 they arrived together in Lesvos and then went to Athens. M., being in an advanced stage of pregnancy, was hosted in a women’s shelter, living for a long period away from her partner, who, having no papers, sought refuge in squats in Athens. The couple reunited and moved to Thessaloniki, where they stayed in an apartment in the UN High Commissioner for Refugees’ accommodation program. M. managed to get asylum, while her husband confronted obstacles. However, the lawyers of **NRC, who were then managers of the program, managed to get papers for her husband as well.

When the management of the program passed to the hands of SolidarityNow, Iro Kotsopoulou, Social Worker, started supporting the family. “For a long time, the man did not have legal documents and could not work, so the wife had to look for a job. That’s where a very admirable effort begins on her part,” says Iro. Determined to support her family, M. managed to find a job in a factory. All this time her husband had taken care of their young child. He felt inactive and upset that his wife had taken on such a difficult role. “It was a family that did not rely on the  monthly allowance. They told me that they have dreams and that they want their own house,” adds Iro. M. from her first meeting with the social worker, had expressed her need to live in her own house and decorate it as she wishes, and not as it’s provided by an organization.

The man as a member of a refugee family, took eventually his legal documents and found work at the same factory as his wife. The two of them asked to work different shifts in order to take care of their child. However, not having time together as a family, an attempt was made by the social worker to enroll the child in a public kindergarten in their area, but there were no places. So, they chose to support financially a woman from their community as to watch over their child. Shortly before the announcement of the exit of those who lived in the accommodation programs, the couple during the lockdown and the COVID-19 pandemic, managed to find their own apartment. Their effort was quite difficult, racism, high rents were deterrents. Their frustration was big, as was their anxiety, but despite all the obstacles, they made it and now have their own house, with their own furniture, decorated as they had dreamed. “That’s what they wanted from the first moment. I hope they continue like this,” says Iro, adding, “I admire this woman, and all other women, who manage to stand on their own two feet despite the difficulties”.

 

* ESTIA, the Emergency Support to Integration and Accommodation programme, is implemented by UNHCR and funded by the Asylum, Migration and Integration Fund of the European Union.

** The Norwegian Refugee Council (NRC) is an independent humanitarian organisation helping people forced to flee.

#OURHEROES: EVA & KONSTANTINOS: The Hope Makers


When we were told “Stay Home”, our thoughts and solidarity were with those who did not have a home; with the people who for us are not numbers, or “cases” to be deported, but they are women and men, girls and boys with names, origin and dreams for a life meant for people.

When we were asked to applaud the “heroes”, we knew very well that the acts of courage of ordinary people -who fled wars and crossed borders- are not validated in an applause, but in the vindication of their rights.

As teachers at the Open Accommodation site in Elefsina, we are working on a problematic framework. We are teachers of the “isolated village” and our school is inside this small “village”. Our main goal is to provide education for children and their parents, creating the most honest and equal relationships with them. We strive to transfer knowledge and experience of specific values, skills and abilities, wishing and hoping that with this knowledge children will not get used to this reality they are experiencing in the camp, and will eventually be able to overcome it.

This hope was cultivated by a farewell letter we received from a student, who, due to the measures for COVID-19, did not have the opportunity to say goodbye to us as she wished -neither did we, of course. The request for family reunification was accepted by the United Kingdom, so mother and children left on a special flight during the quarantine period. So, the letter of the little girl was handed to us by her classmates, when we returned to the site.

Her words were a written reflection of the values and relationships we work hard to build between the local community and migrants. Relationships that have as ultimate goal, to promote justice and freedom for the oppressed. When we told her that her story would be published, she asked us to add this: “I would like to say, stay human because I believe we can no longer encounter cruelty.”

So, in a context of global fear and isolation, due to the coronavirus, her letter showed us that what is needed the most is, to build relationships based on solidarity, equality, reciprocity and trust. N. writes at the beginning of her letter: “I would like to thank you because you are the Hope Makers.” Her name in her language means “light”. Today, N. is looking forward to continuing her studies at the Universities of United Kingdom and USA.

The real hope maker is you, our beloved N., and we hope that together, we will change this world.

  • I am Eva Iliadi, English Teacher, at the Open Accommodation Center in Elefsina.
  • I am Konstantinos Psilopanagiotis, Senior Teacher and Teacher of Mathematics at the Open Accommodation Center in Elefsina.
  • We both work at the “Child & Family Support Hubs” project, which is implemented by SolidarityNow with the support of UNICEF and IOM Greece and funded by the European Commission.

#OurHeroes: Myrto Prodromidou_Nothing in our Lives is a Given


The word that might best describe the situation we are experiencing is exclusion. Our daily lives and our sociability have changed, and that reminded us that nothing in our lives is a given.

For refugees and asylum seekers, however, who have already experienced a complete change of their lives, the pandemic was nothing more than a reminder of the need for solidarity.

SolidarityNow’s activities at the Open Accommodation structures are aiming to support single-parent families and protect children.

Our most important goal is to provide solidarity to the people we help, to enhance the sense of security and protection and at the same time to be able to respond to the urgent needs of the pandemic.

So, what has changed? The feeling of insecurity has been increased because of the reduced access to services.

The most difficult part is the generalized feeling of stagnation and deadlock that people feel.

In response to these conditions, we decided to further support people, so that through their own strength to overcome the feelings of exclusion.

I would like to quote the words of a woman beneficiary; I will call her Leandra, although this is not her real name. Leandra is from Iran:

“I am just happy to be free. My ex-boyfriend kidnapped me and abused me. He didn’t let me go or speak to my family. Gradually I began to forget what day it was. I managed to escape and find my family again. I slowly began to form relationships with other girls and women from the community. We talked, we knitted, we walked, and we listened to music. In the last few days, I have been home with my family and I am trying to be careful. A month ago, we were informed of the risks and measures for COVID-19. I was asked if I wanted to be a supportive member of the women’s community. I started thinking about my family, my home, the people who helped me, and I felt safe. I accepted the proposal and along with the SolidarityNow team, I became part of a live network of information and solidarity for all the women living in the camp. In this way, I became a key link, conveying information and useful messages to women, thus strengthening the sense of community, but above all, helping each other”. SolidarityNow tries every day to make Leandra’s words come true, knowing in advance that only together we can face fear.

 

My name is Myrto Prodromidou, I am a Social Worker and Team Leader at the Vagiochori Open Accommodation Center for Refugees. I am working at the Child & Family Support Hubs project, which is implemented by SolidarityNow with the support of UNICEF and IOM Greece and funded by the European Commission.

#OUR HEROES: Marika Gavrielatou_Nok-Nok, the Children’s new Friend


I have always found change difficult, and especially when it’s unforeseen and catches you unprepared. That’s why when we were told that the educational lessons in the camp were temporarily suspended due to the coronavirus, I felt that I couldn’t do my job: being among children. After all, our presence in the camp is equivalent to joy, positive energy and constant in the daily life of our students through our educational activities.

Even under these conditions, our team found a way to keep in touch with our young and adult students through… Nok-Nok! Our new friend is a postman in Kato Milia refugee accommodation structure and appeared to fill the gap in the hearts of children upon the closure of schools. Nok-Nok was preparing gifts for each student every week. Every Friday, early in the morning, when everyone was still asleep, Nok-Nok was passing by the children’s homes and left outside each door a package with educational material for learning Greek, English and mathematics, but also with paintings, fairy tales and comics without endings as every story stopped at the best point, so that the children would be waiting for the sequel. But the role of Nok-Nok did not stop there. After a week he reappeared. This time to make sure the young students had completed their homework and were ready to deliver it to their new friend. How? But in secret! Students had to leave their “homework” outside their door and Nok-Nok appeared only when they could not see him. Nok-Nok enjoyed receiving their exercises, he left new gifts and disappeared as suddenly as he appeared.

Having this plan, we started to prepare the necessary material, adapting it to the cognitive level of each student. This time-consuming process was combined with a staggering concern that our students would not show the expected zeal; as a result, the first week of preparations passed with mixed feelings. After the first distribution of the material, however, things changed. We prepared this little surprise for the kids, but they reserved an even bigger one for us in the way they responded.

Before I continue, I have to admit that most of the kids immediately understood who is Nok-Nok, something that gave us the opportunity to receive a lot of smiles. Every Friday morning, our friends who woke up early waited impatiently for us to deliver their homework and receive new. They shouted “papers, papers!” and they immediately ran to fill in the new material, to return it to us on the exact same day. Other times they waited patiently outside our office, hesitantly opening the door, asking, “Aren’t we going to get papers today?” and their faces lit up when they saw the packs of papers. On the other hand, the children, who woke up later in the day, made sure to send us thank you notes and pictures hidden among the exercise papers that came back to us.

In fact, a 13-year-old schoolgirl wrote the following note in colorful letters: “I greet you too, beautiful angel. I’m so glad I got your message. It was perfect. Thank you so much for thinking of us! I’m waiting for more!”

In these difficult conditions of the lockdown, both for us the teachers and for our students, Nok-Nok was the most enjoyable note. Seeing children’s smiles every time they received the material, their eager, how they gathered in groups at various points in the camp and worked together to solve their exercises together, the timid knocks on the door to ask questions and then run home to fill in the correct answer, they filled us with so much joy.

In those moments I forgot the lockdown, the social distancing, because I realized that with something as simple as five pages of mathematics, cryptic crosswords, and paintings, we softened the anxiety to the fullest, and perhaps the fears of the children created by these particular conditions. That, after all, was our goal: to make this period as easy as possible for the children. Not to lose the rhythm of their daily lives, not to lose their contact with education and to remain mentally healthy.

Children’s smiles should not fade, but smile bright. In the refugee camp of Kato Milia, I saw it happen during this period, thanks to the dedicated and methodical work of my colleagues.

I am Marika Gavrielatou, I am Senior Education Officer at the Kato Milia Refugee Open Accommodation Center. I am working at the Child & Family Support Hubs project, which is implemented by SolidarityNow with the support of UNICEF and IOM Greece and funded by the European Commission.

 

#OURHEROES: Konstantinos Kasampalis_Dancing and Singing


The quarantine period was quite difficult for all of us. For me, not having classes and any contact with my students was an unprecedented condition as it was the first time I wouldn’t be able to meet them for a long time. I was constantly thinking about them and I was worried about how they might experience quarantine and restrictions both inside and outside the refugee site, where they live.

I was worried about them for not being able to go to school and about the difficulties they would face by “Staying Home”, where so many other people live. My need to feel close to them came into conflict with the need to respect the new rules.

After a few days, I had to visit to the site, and while the measures of social exclusion were in force, I faced a big challenge. Ten of my students were playing carefree, but when they saw me, they ran over me wanting to hug me. I felt that our relationship had not changed and that they had not forgotten me. I wanted to run to them too. I wanted to give them a huge hug, as we used to do. But I knew that this could not happen. I immediately had to come up with something that would prevent our physical contact. I had to not panic, not to disappoint them and not to take the joy and excitement away from them.

Without knowing why, subconsciously, I wanted and had to, avoid any contact with them for the protection of all of us; at the same time, I wanted to express my joy for seeing them again. So, I began to kinda “sing” and “dance”, actually it was something between dancing and martial arts. Fortunately, everything went well. The children started to imitate my movements, maintaining the required distances while at the same time we were all happy, having fun and expressing our joy for our meeting. We bubbled over with joy and even in this way we managed to get closer. We became one again.

My name is Konstantinos Kasampalis, I am a Professor of Mathematics and Science at the Serres Open Accommodation Center for Refugees. I am working at the “Child & Family Support Hubs” project, which is implemented by SolidarityNow with the support of UNICEF and IOM Greece and funded by the European Commission.

#OurHeroes: Katerina Stamelou_We all became Vulnerable, but also Stronger


During the first days of the announcement of the measures against Covid-19, I was in Athens for a seminar. It was the last time I was in another city. Since then, everything has changed. I think the scariest thing was the picture of people in masks and plastic gloves on the street. Like a scene from a movie. But the scariest thing is that we got used to it.

The quarantine didn’t bother me. Those of us who are parents, there is always a quarantine period when children get sick. It bothered me that for about two months I had not seen my mother.

Then I had to think about work, what would happen at work? Suddenly the group activities stopped, the distances increased, the people were locked in their homes. Some things for us who work in the field have always been self-evident. Antiseptics, viruses, all kinds of diseases. Restrictions on access to services, hospitals and jobs are always present issues at refugee camps. The difference is that now, we all face the same problem. Something that annoyed me was some people’s talks, claiming that refugees and migrants living in the camps have the virus.

The space where I work in Thebes was transformed into a quarantine place for people who may have been infected with the virus. This hurt me a lot, but I overcame it. Now we all work on all fronts, serving immediate needs. Strange as it may sound, all this time we have come closer to people, even from a distance, we have developed relationships of trust, we have helped them and made them feel better.

Among the most difficult incidents, which were and are many, I single out the case of a family with four children, who arrived at the Thebes camp just before the restrictive measures were announced. They came from an island in the Northern Aegean, without clothes or food, and were placed in a tent. The mother was very ill and was taken to the hospital, where she remained for a month. The father, who was visiting the SolidarityNow team every day, was desperate and had to take care of the whole family and their two-month-old child alone. Our team stood by him from the beginning, with constant support and counseling on how to take care of his children. We supported them as much as we could with food and with the necessary transportation for buying medicines. And we were there to see the family reunite the day when the mother was released from the hospital.

All people in the field have lived similar moments and in the end, this is what counts. Nothing can be compared to the beneficiaries expressions and feelings when we fight together to overcome difficulties and problems. .

But COVID-19 had, let’s say, some positive impact. We acquired new technological skills, useful for the post-coronavirus era. We gained a few pounds, but we gave a lot of love. We became better cooks, our babies said new words faster, we wore masks, but we took off the “masks” of everyday life and we all became more vulnerable, but also stronger.

 

My name is Katerina Stamelou, I am Phycologist and Responsible of the Female Friendly Space at the Thebes Open Accommodation Center for Refugees. I am working at the Child & Family Support Hubs project, which is implemented by SolidarityNow with the support of UNICEF and IOM Greece and funded by the European Commission.

#OurHeroes: Evi Papagianni_Together, we Can Succeed Anything!


I remember one morning, being in the organization’s van and listening to the radio about the World Health Organization’s emergency meeting. I’ve heard for a new disease that seemed to be spreading rapidly and affecting more and more people. Back then, I discussed with my colleagues, our driver and cultural mediator, how bad the situation sounded, but at the same time how far away from us. Things were still normal, we had a lot of things to do, and our work with the people included medical escorts, referrals, discussions about the present and the next day.

When we were informed on March 12th about the suspension of the operation of schools, as the first measure to deal with the coronavirus pandemic , we found ourselves in front of, the biggest challenge, that our team had faced until then. We had to act calmly and in a coordinated manner. This was followed by updates, long discussions, and the need for answers that we did not know.

Just a few days later, most of our direct services provided in the context of the SolidarityNow accommodation program had to stop. Personally, I felt very insecure. As a social worker, the heart of my work is the personalized meetings with the people we support. Dialogue and discussions have always been the most important elements of our work; sitting in front of the person who has something to tell you, listening to him/her carefully, looking him/her in the eyes – sometimes, holding his/her hand, reminding him/her that you are there. How could we maintain the valuable “relationship” with our beneficiaries when being in distance? What should we tell them? And, if we ourselves experience something so unprecedented and frightening, how could we rise to the occasion?

The truth is that people have more cognitive reserves than one can imagine.

In the following weeks we were asked to change our way of working. “Meetings” are now held by scheduled telephone appointments. The emergencies are not absent of course – and, now, their management needs more flexibility, as, over time, restrictive measures have become stricter. And how to explain to someone who had survived a war, that this time their safety depends on staying home…

We spent many hours in telephone communication. A big part of the population is dealing with health problems, so we had to ensure they have access to medicines, but we also needed to reschedule their medical appointments. Doctors in the public healthcare system responded with unprecedented readiness. The beneficiaries showed patience and understanding. That was a small victory.

A few days later, we had to think of the children, our beneficiaries’ children. There was a great concern among parents about their education – basis for their integration into Greek society, which was abruptly stopped. The time for the next battle had come, this time with the digital platforms and the language gap, as none of these tools were provided in a language understood by the beneficiaries. But we made it! And we did it mainly with the children’s help and patience.

And, of course, life did not stop. Our beneficiaries’ worries remained the same. Their hopes remained the same. During this time, little Fatime did not stop her blood transfusions. Ali continues his meetings with the psychologist. The family of Zahra and Karim managed to move into their own apartment, happily completing their cycle in our program. And our daily phone communications still go on: for the SMS texts as to obtain exit permission, for the renewal of the asylum card, for the electric power cuts, for a child with a toothache, and so on.

We are now facing the prospect of the next day. It finds me somewhat numb, but also determined. Since we have managed to keep ties in the age of social distancing, we can succeed anything.

I am Evi Papagianni and I am working as a social worker in SolidarityNow’s ESTIA, the Emergency Support to Integration and Accommodation program, which is implemented by UNHCR and funded by the Asylum, Migration and Integration Fund of the European Union.

#OURHEROES: VASSILIKI & ALEXANDRA: We look forward to the moment when we can hug everyone again!


Alexandra: Everything went smoothly, almost smoothly, until one day we heard this tongue twister: a coronavirus, that emerged in Wuhan. At first there were a lot of jokes about the virus, but none of us understood the importance of the situation. Despite the cancellation of the carnival events in Patras, many people took the risk and paraded. Some of them were dressed up as coronavirus. But a few days later, we came down to earth. The prefecture of Ilia soon became the focus of discussions, not for Ancient Olympia, but for the confirmed COVID-19 cases that emerged. We suddenly realized the urgency of the situation. Vassiliki, a friend and colleague of mine, was terrified. However, she soon overcame the first shock and with the right help and support by the SolidarityNow team, she was able to cope and overcome her fears.

Vassiliki: The fact that me and Alexandra were both assigned as security personnel was something that initially brought us mixed feelings. At first, we were scared, as the situation was still unknown. We were worried that we might get the virus. On the other hand, we saw it as a challenge to gain experience as professionals working in the field, always with the support of SolidarityNow and our team, who were by our side and supported us. We quickly realized that we were “the lucky ones”, because being at work – which we love so much – we were not in quarantine at home, something that helped a lot to our psychology.

Alexandra: The time at Andravida Open Accommodation Center was passing slowly, so I decided to organize a sewing workshop applying all the relevant safety measures. Along with two refugee women and with the… support of two sewing machines and materials that already existed at the women’s space, we made health masks to protect against the virus! It is an activity that we organized due to the lack of masks in pharmacies, at that time, and because of the inability of our beneficiaries, who do not have the financial means, to deal with an extra expense. The women-beneficiaries responded very positively. All this was a challenge for me. However, together we managed to face the difficult and unprecedented situation we experienced in a creative way. Our goal now is to give the masks to the most vulnerable people living in the camp.

Vassiliki: On the contrary, it was very hard for me to deal with the whole situation, since part of my job is to accompany minors to hospitals and medical services outside the camp. During the pandemic, I had to go to the “Children’s” hospital in Patras several times. It was a difficult situation for me, as I had to deal with my personal anxieties and fears. Many times, I had ambivalent feelings, but the faces of the children when they looked at me and when they felt safe with my presence next to them, won. I think that I reached my limits and questioned my abilities but now I feel satisfied and I believe that I am doing my job very well.

Alexandra: We both try to stay creative. Another initiative we took during this time was to create a weekly magazine for the people of the community. With the help of our interpreters, we were able to make a news magazine, consisting of recipes and advices on good physical and mental health, as well as sections dedicated to women and children. The purpose of the magazine is to strengthen our presence in the camp and to remind of our supportive role to all the families living here. Our goal is to continue publishing it after the end of the pandemic.

  • Vassiliki: We look forward to the moment when we can hug everyone again! I am Vasiliki Spiliotopoulou and I am a Social Scientist, working at the Andravida Refugee Open Accommodation Center for Refugees.
  • I am Alexandra Tzavella and I am a Social Worker, working at the Andravida Open Accommodation Center for Refugees.
  • We both work at the Child & Family Support Hubs project, which is implemented by SolidarityNow with the support of UNICEF and IOM Greece and funded by the European Commission.

#OURHEROES: Konstantinos Papadakis_Can I make a difference?


The COVID-19 period and the security measures we have adopted have changed the way we live and the way we have worked so far. The conditions have become even more difficult in areas that were under quarantine. One such area is the Malakasa Open Accommodation Center, one of the camps where SolidarityNow operates and currently is under quarantine due to coronavirus confirmed cases.

Unfortunately, one of the patients was a single parent who had to be hospitalized, leaving behind his three minor children. From that moment on, our work began since we had to take care of three children who were also in quarantine, away from their father and without being able to communicate with him.

Our specialized team in child protection and the mental health professionals of SolidarityNow in Malakasa started a daily communication with the three siblings, offering them support in every possible way. First of all, we wanted to ensure, that all of them were in good health, both physically and mentally and also to encourage them to be optimistic about the future. We visit them regularly and ensure that they have all the essentials they need.

At the same time, we are in constant contact with the hospital where the father is being treated, and actually, we are the only way for the children to learn about his health.

So, gradually, and through our daily communication, we built a relationship of trust with the children. We managed to have direct communication with their father and we notice now that the children are comforted because they feel there are in an environment on which they can rely. And this is something that, under these conditions, takes time and requires a lot of strength.

I won’t forget when one night my phone rang. It was a telephone number from Germany. I picked it up and on the other end of the line was the older sister of the children, who wanted to thank me for what we are doing for her family.

I share this story because it answers to many of my own questions. Is what we do enough? Is all these a futile effort? Can I make a difference?

With this phone call I realized that our efforts are not in vain and felt grateful for being able to support people not to lose hope. And for me, that is enough to make me continue with even greater commitment to do what I do.

I am Konstantinos Papadakis and I am a Teacher and Team Leader at the Malakasa Open Accommodation Center. I am working at the Child & Family Support Hubs project, which is implemented by SolidarityNow with the support of UNICEF and IOM Greece and funded by the European Commission.

#OURHEROES: Marina-Isaia Mavridou_The Positive Impact of Solidarity


The negative impact of this crisis continues to be counted daily in human lives and translated into pause, loneliness, people without any social or economic protection network. Fear usually overwhelms us and overshadows everything positive. It becomes clear to us every day what separates us: 2 meters distance, a face mask and a pair of gloves. But have we ever wondered what has united us so far?

People living in refugee sites at various parts of Greece have shown us first hand, and already from the beginning of this crisis, what can unite us during this critical period – when access to basic services is often impossible and protection mechanisms cannot respond as before.

I would like to share with you the stories of people who have shrunk the world, and created bridges of solidarity, against the norms. The refugee community, in one of the refugee sites in Northern Greece, responded immediately by supporting three young children, who were left alone when their mother had to be transferred to the hospital. The women of the community cooked for the children while other took care of them in shifts, to make sure they were safe. They supported these children as if they were members of their own family.

At the same time, members of another refugee community at Vagiochori refugee site undertook the “weekly shopping” for the elderly inhabitants but also for people with mobility difficulties. So, they walked for miles carrying double weight, receiving this unique personal satisfaction that only solidarity may give you. The community of refugees at Serres camp completed dozens of “movement and exit” forms (when the state measures were stricter) for people who did not know to write, thus, giving them a small sense of freedom.

Through all these, we understood the importance of a united, cooperative and resilient community that is fueled and developed through substantial solidarity. Elements that accompanied these people all along their long journey from their country of origin, to Greece. The place where many of them want to build a new home, to create a daily routine, even amid this crisis.

At SolidarityNow we are here to support people in the new beginning of their lives. Our goal is not only to provide services to vulnerable people, but through information and empowerment, our vision is to contribute to the effort of people to recognize their skills and to overcome the obstacles that arise along the way.

 

I am Marina-Isaia Mavridou, Project Officer of Child Protection in Northern Greece. I am working at the “Child & Family Support Hubs” program, which is implemented by SolidarityNow with the support of UNICEF and IOM Greece and funded by the European Commission.